Sunday, November 17, 2013

The Internet Snare

I'm writing about affairs today.
Many have never had the temptation.
Most say I would never! But I do believe that Satan wants to interfere with anything of God. At some time, either you or your spouse will face temptation.
Facebook has caused the ultimate temptation.
It can be so tempting to 'correspond' with this guy when you're feeling down or your husband has ignored you for the 100th time.
It is a web of deceit crafted by the one who wants to hurt you!
And we don't often think logically when it happens.
When it happens and you're feeling that amazing feeling of being appreciated and adored, think!
Didn't your love do that as well in the beginning?

Then...I want you to think of all of the hard times you've gone through with your spouse... the ways he's seen you at your worst and still loved you and then, imaging this new man seeing you all the same ways.
Imagine those fights with this new person. Would their personality truly be any better.
No! Unless you are being cheated on or abused, I do not believe it is right to leave the man God gave you!!
This new man would in time turn cold as well. Then you will have the heartache of this new love turned dry as well as letting your old love go. Don't double the agony. Work on the love you have.
I believe you fell in love with or connected with your husband for a reason.
I also know for a FACT that the feelings you had at first and MORE are possible!!
Do you know how to get to them??
You have to close off the IDEA of anyone else in your mind and focus SOLELY on them as your love...They have to as well but here's a secret... even the most distant man will come around when he sees the love return in your eyes. I have seen it time and time again. That coldness is mistrust. That coldness is hurt. The most closed off man will melt when you look at him with deep love and show the attraction and feelings you once had for him again. He may mistrust it at first but he will come around.  Men want to be appreciated. When they aren't, they feel the same pains we do. Only they show it differently. Instead of crying and trying harder, they close off and pull away. They are not comfortable with that emotion. Literally they run from it. So when they are deep down aching for you, they may show it as anger, coldness, distance. etc.
 The deep ache for you is hidden behind cold lifeless eyes. Those cold eyes show a man's pain. Respond to it as such.
There are things that can cause deep trials in a man's life. I believe that God placed you into your love's life to help him through such times. Only the softness of a woman's love can comfort a man through his deepest storms. I believe that is why God created us as the perfect companion.
I promise you...
When you are both able to remember why you chose each other and return to seeing each other as the only one, voila, the love is back.
The secret to keeping the spark is that both sides have to consistently see the other as 'the only one' for them.
When that happens, love can grow so deep.
Don't neglect time with them.
Don't hurt them and close them off with affairs.

Love is something to never take for granted. They should be a part of you. Not something you would willingly hurt.
Love your spouse.
Care for them.
There is no gift as great as a love relationship.
God is able to love and care for you so dearly through the eyes and arms of your love.
Cherish it.

You will feel God's love in your marriage
You will only feel Satan's misery in an affair.
The deepest love comes through the experiences you share together. The man who stands by you through hard times and hurts is something to cherish. Don't let him go. Cherish him!
Choose love.
May God Bless you!

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